A Wirral dad paid tribute to his ‘fun-loving’ daughter who died of a mind tumour after being recognized aged simply 11.
Annie Kell, from Wirral, was recognized with the tumour and handled at Liverpool’s Alder Hey Youngsters’s Hospital, leaving Mike “praying for a miracle”.
After medical doctors mentioned nothing extra may very well be carried out to deal with the tumour, Mike and his spouse Lynn have been capable of carry Annie residence to be cared for in her household residence with assist from Wirral charity Claire Home who “held their arms each step of the best way”.
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Now Mike runs counselling classes at Claire Home to assist different bereaved dads after the charity supported his household “of their darkest days.”
Mike informed the ECHO: “I typically say that when you lose a mother or father or grandparent, it’s like shedding your previous. Nevertheless, when you lose a baby, you’re shedding your future.
“Annie was a contented, fun-loving woman, simply as she ought to be.”
He mentioned Annie was “a daddy’s woman and he or she positively had me twisted round her little finger.”
Mike mentioned: “She liked to bounce and was all the time performing within the lounge or backyard for us.
“However all the things modified when she was recognized with a mind tumour on the age of 11.”
Annie underwent remedy at Alder Hey Youngsters’s Hospital however quickly after the medical doctors gave the household the devastating information that there was nothing extra that may very well be carried out for Annie.
Mike mentioned: “I had stayed constructive all through, all the time believing that she’d pull by, as a result of the choice was simply too exhausting to even ponder. I by no means gave up hope. Even to the final day, I used to be praying for a miracle.
“After she stopped remedy, we sorted Annie at residence, simply as she wished, with the assist of Claire Home.
“When her situation deteriorated, we turned our downstairs entrance room right into a bed room and my spouse Lynn took break day work to take care of her.”
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Mike says Claire Home nurses visited commonly to speak by Annie’s medicine and desires and have been all the time readily available to providing a supporting ear to the remainder of the household too.
He mentioned: “If we had any worries or issues, it doesn’t matter what time it was, we may all the time cellphone Claire Home and speak to somebody.
“Too quickly, the day got here when Annie left us. We knew we have been going to should say goodbye to our little woman in some unspecified time in the future, however nothing can put together you for the ache of shedding a baby.
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“Claire Home organized for Annie to remain of their Butterfly Suite, which is their bereavement suite inside the hospice.
“Having this facility the place we may very well be with our little woman was such a consolation, and so a lot better than her being at a funeral residence.”
He says the charity additionally supplied much-needed assist to Annie’s older brother Will, who was left “devastated” by Annie’s loss of life.
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Mike mentioned: “Annie idolised her huge brother, Will, and he was by her facet all through her sickness. He was devastated by the lack of his little sister, and understandably anxious concerning the funeral.
“Claire Home’s experience in supporting siblings made a giant distinction to Will.
“He was capable of share his emotions and inspired to contribute to the funeral in any method he wished, which actually helped him to cope with the state of affairs.
“I do not understand how we’d have gotten by it with out Claire Home.”